My personal guide for overcoming shyness in Gen-Z
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Time for some real talk about shyness, I have it as well, guilty as charged.
Here's my current status:
Still shy? Sometimes ✅
Completely "cured"? Nope 🚫
Making progress? Absolutely 📈
Looking for progress, not perfection!
Recently met two amazing #Gen Z guys (16 & 18) struggling with the same thing. The conversation went beyond the usual "just believe in yourself" nonsense.
The 18-year-old's exact words: "How do I stop being a nobody and being shit at everything?"
It's some negative self-talk BUT
Truth bomb: Social media hasn't helped. We're all busy crafting perfect online personas while struggling to order coffee without rehearsing it 15 times.
My 18-year-old friend is trying to apply for software development internships but everything is so f..cking fancy pancy and you need 10 years of experience for an internship at a startup. He gets nuts while scrolling through LinkedIn jobs.
Quick reality check on overcoming shyness:
It's not a binary transformation
Progress isn't Instagram-worthy
Go for progress and not perfection
Most "confidence gurus" are selling snake oil (BIG TIME)
"That's why I trust no one unless I met them in person or some friends told me he is the real deal"
Yes, I mentioned #David #Goggins to them. Not because he's a LinkedIn favorite, but because sometimes you need someone screaming "STAY HARD" at 2 AM when social anxiety hits.
Key takeaway: Stop waiting to "overcome" shyness. Start accepting it's a journey, not a LinkedIn success story.
For my fellow shy professionals: Your awkward moments aren't failures. They're proof you're actually showing up.
No rocket emojis needed. Just real people doing real work on themselves.
#NoFilter #ActuallyAuthentic #EnoughWithTheRocketEmojis
P.S. It would be hell trying to get hired nowadays as a junior programmer👇
P.P.S If you have intern jobs for devs, let me know please. You will make 3 people happy and +500 in karma points.